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नदी

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कहाँ से आती होगी ये नदी, कहाँ को जाती होगी. क्या मिलता होगा उसे अपना ठिकाना! या वो भी भटक कर थक जाती होगी। कहाँ से कहाँ तक का सफ़र है, या है बस त्रासदी मात्र। कभी किसी किनारे को याद करती होगी, फिर चुपचाप आगे बढ़ जाती होगी। कहाँ से आती होगी ये नदी. /Som

त्रासदी

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It's a dusky evening at Patna Junction. I met a boy from a very small town in Jalpaiguri, around 17 years old. He was coming from Gaya, Bihar, after doing pind daan for his father. I just asked what happened to him, and he said, “ He did suicide .” I felt numb, I didn’t know how to react. I just smiled awkwardly and said, “Sorry, bhai.” He replied, “ areeh bhaiya It’s life,. Thik hai na, aap sorry kyun bol rhe ho. Kaun hamesha sath rehta hai.” From the side, his grandfather said, “ Beta guzar gaya, pota hai wohi kaafi hai humare liye.” I asked him about his dream. He said, “I love to play cricket, and I wanted to become a cricketer. Mujhe desh ke liye khelna hai, par bhaiya zimmedari hai ab.” Honestly, I didn’t have any words to say. I felt so helpless. He just said while looking outside, “Topi kharidunga ek, takla accha nahi dikhta.” I smiled and said, Let’s go outside. I bought him a cap, and we had dinner. I don’t want to show myself as good - trust me, I’m not. I ne...

Is the Collegium System Beyond Question?

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The Collegium system —where judges appoint judges—is often presented as sacrosanct. But should it be immune to public scrutiny and debate? After all, in a democracy, no institution should be above accountability, especially one tasked with upholding justice. In 2015 , the Supreme Court struck down the National Judicial Appointments Commission (NJAC) —a constitutional attempt to reform judicial appointments—on the grounds that it violated the “ basic structure doctrine ” (judicial independence). But critics ask: Does independence mean insulation from accountability? Nepotism or Merit? There is growing criticism that the judiciary is becoming  hereditary : A study by Vidhi Centre for Legal Policy (2016) found that nearly 50% of Supreme Court judges had close relatives in the legal profession. Names of children or relatives of former judges, politicians, or senior advocates frequently come up for elevation. Question : Does this trend represent India’s diversi...

In case you're having a bad day.

I don't know what you're going through. But I know whatever you did, you did your best. So, don't worry. Just sit back and enjoy the journey. You are so pure. Stay healthy. Take care.

Imperfections

Loving someone doesn't mean you have to like everything about them, we all are imperfect being, and we all have little annoying habits, it's important to have a honest relationship than a perfect one. Woh sachha pyaar ki kya, jiss mein aap unsey sach na bol sakey. 

The Seven attributes of Bhagavan Shiva.

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1. Why Snake? - Snakes are a symbol of awareness. You can't be asleep with a snake around your neck! 2. Why Ashes? - To remind you of the impermanence of life; knowing that we live life fully. 3. Is the Moon an Ornament? - The moon and the mind are connected. To be happy in all phases of life, you have to have a say over the mind. 4. Why Damru? - It has the same shape as the symbol of infinity. Shiva is the unbound infinite consciousness! 5. Trishul - A Weapon? - Shiva rules over the three gunas represented in the trishul. Yet he encourages everyone to do their dharma - to act and stand up for truth. 6. Blue Bodied - The sky is limitless and so is Shiva. The sky is blue and Shiva is blue too. 7. What about Ganga? - Ganga represents gyan (knowledge). Wisdom dawns naturally when you are established in the Shiva.

Want To build better relationships with people?

How to nurture a healthy relationship? 1. Make a dedicated time for those who matter - Spend a part of your day building relationships, even if it's just 20 minutes over five minutes. Let those who are closest to you know that they are important to you. 2. Attack the problem, not the person - Take the opportunity to learn something and practice collaborating to solve problems rather than spreading blame. 3. Be the most positive person you know - People who are positive are grateful; they know how to appreciate others. They focus on what matters to them and they make it important. 4. Never jump to conclusions - Let go of your biases and judgments before you react to any situation. Jumping to incorrect conclusions can damage relationships more than anything else. 5. Underpromise and overdeliver -  Following up on your commitments is the best way to show someone you value them. Give more than what is expected. 6. Communicate Candidly and Honestly -  Good communication is th...